Someone mentioned the song, "Tell Me Why" by Taylor Swift. I'm not truly familiar with her music, but her words were very telling. The first time I listened I thought WOW she is speaking about the dynamics of verbal abuse and emotional abuse...I wonder if most people noticed that?
On the other hand, when I listened to Tell Me Why a second time? I thought of all the rebukes this person would get. I won't say 'woman' because quite frankly? I could hear the excuses being handed to every man, women and child.
The artist doesn't have a video for this song, but I found a video link on You Tube for Tell Me Why that gives you the lyrics on the screen.