I have never watched the Austin Power’s movies, but I have seen clips here and there.
I was communicating with Cindy Kunsman, and she was speaking about the huge load that men are handed in terms of scripture at times. The load she spoke about to me was a misinterpretation of scripture – to Cindy as well I will point out.
This is the impression I came away with of certain people’s views on Ephesians 5:
You hear at times about how men will be held in account for the actions/sins of their family/wife. They take that command from Ephesians 5. This has always boggled my mind, and I never did figure out how they got there. For some reason Mini Me from Austin Powers popped into my mind. He is the little person pictured today.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
This scripture concentrates more on how Christ loved us, and how he gave himself up for us. He gave himself up for her (the church) to make her holy. He did this by washing with the water through the word, and then presents her (the church) to himself as the radiant church without stain, wrinkle, or other blemish. Jesus makes us holy and Blameless (by the forgiveness of sins).
Cindy describes some gentleman’s reactions to her scholarly presentations. They told her that they will be held responsible for their wife in this way. To me? It was as if they were taking on a Mini Me position of Jesus. They were going to held accountable for their wives, because he was the one to present her without stain, wrinkle, etc. Ephesians isn’t asking this of the husband. That’s crazy talk!
Men – no matter what their position – are never held responsible for other human’s sin. We are all held accountable for our own sin. This scripture doesn’t say that husbands are the mini me of Jesus. He isn’t saying you are able to do the things that I (Jesus) do for those that believe in me. We are saved through Jesus, and to me this scripture is speaking more of a comparison. LOOK at how I love you, and how I show my love for you. I ask that you show a comparable love for your wife.
28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body.
Husbands are to love their wives as their own bodies (comparing in a way to Jesus love for his body – the church). We feed and care for our literal body, and it’s the same principal of how Jesus cares of his body (the church). We care and feed our bodies differently of course, but to me he is more speaking of a principal. Humans are not able to present anyone – let alone themselves – to Jesus without stain being holy without Jesus. That would be like stating I can present a person that has been given no food as someone that will not starve. We can’t do that as humans.
Teaching men are accountable for their wives in this way? Its like saying I gave no food to my wife, but I am the one that is starving (literally speaking). Jesus could pull that off, but we as humans aren’t able to no matter what. Jesus does not ask this of husbands.
31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Now, if you view the husband as some mini me of Jesus? I guess that is how they get this ‘head of authority’ thinking. The one flesh in their eyes at this point is – husband is the head of the body, everyone else is the body. The head being the mini me of Jesus. He will be in authority since he is responsible for the family, and the covering of his wife’s sin. I guess they solved the profound mystery.
Could be how this ‘biblical role’ thinking started. The only problem with that is men are not the mini me of Jesus. The passage was speaking of how Jesus loves us – washing, etc. He was not saying husband you are to be, and do my role like I do. It seems to me they are taking the comparison the wrong way. Humans can never be the mini me of Jesus. Its not possible.
Doing your biblical roles would be ‘works based’ in order to get salvation. Women are to treat their husbands as the mini me Jesus. When you think of yourself as the mini me of Jesus – you would see yourself with power and authority over others. Then Jesus would be asking wives to respect the mini me – and not the human. In other words, you need to respect the role – not the person. Do we do that with Jesus?
If husbands truly had the power of the mini me of Jesus? All this yacking about how wives treat their husbands either make them wimpy, dominating, or Godly? It places the woman in position of making the Mini me in the family.
So we are all given unrealistic burdens that Jesus never asked us to take. Women can’t respect a person enough to make them a mini me Jesus, and the man –being the mini me Jesus can’t be responsible for the other’s person sin.
I realize they like to use this ‘military’ visual, but heck even solders are held accountable for their actions. In the past year a soldier is being held for trial due to the fact he got into a fight with fellow military personnel, and then shot them dead. Do we see the commander and chief being held responsible for the murder or do we see the soldier?
According to what I’m reading with this teaching? The commander and chief of the family would be held responsible for the murder in the eyes of Jesus. You see these men that love the position of the Mini Me Jesus, but when it comes to being held responsible for others actions? They don’t want that role so much anymore. They resent being told if something bad happens in the family – its all their fault. Heck, I can’t blame them!
The problem is you can’t expect people to be ‘literal’ in just one direction to suit the mini me Jesus. If you are the Mini Me Jesus you take the whole burden to make it light.
Come to me all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. Matthew 11:28-30
If you look at that scripture? We realize there can be no mini me Jesus. Sadly, there are huge burdens of that role that Jesus did not ask men to take. They can’t take them, because only Jesus can.
Just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
This portion of scripture is speaking about Christ. It isn’t NOT asking men to become the Mini Me Jesus. Jesus loved the church, and this is how he shows his love. We say that sin separates us from God. Jesus takes away the sin. Mini Me can’t do that. That is something Jesus does for us out of love. Why would people feel Jesus is asking the husband to do this for his wife? Its not possible.